Eloping is an intimate, personal way to marry your partner without the stress or pressure of a traditional wedding. If you value simplicity and privacy, and love the idea of creating your own unique experience, eloping might be the right thing for you. If you’re considering eloping, this guide will walk you through everything you need to know, from planning to saying “I do.”
Before diving into logistics, take some time to reflect on why you want to elope. Is it the desire for a quiet ceremony in a meaningful place? A rejection of traditional wedding norms? A chance to spend more on an unforgettable experience rather than on a big celebration? Understanding your motivation will guide your decision-making, and you’ll keep coming back to this if planning gets stressful or if family members express a lack of support.
One of the beauties of eloping is that you don’t have to plan years in advance, but it’s still important to pick a date that works for both of you. Consider the season, climate, and any significant dates that might be meaningful (or easier for travel). Keep in mind that some places may require you to apply for permits months in advance.
Elopements offer the freedom to marry almost anywhere, so selecting the perfect spot is key. Some popular elopement destinations include:
Mountains, beaches, forests, deserts, and lakes.
Famous cities, quaint villages, or dream vacation spots.
A private backyard, living room, or a favorite local park.
Consider your personalities, your values, and the type of scenery that speaks to you. If you’re not familiar with the area, research local permits or restrictions.
Regardless of where you elope, getting legally married requires a marriage license. The requirements vary depending on location, so make sure to research your destination’s marriage laws (some places have residency requirements). Apply for your marriage license ahead of time (often a few days to a few weeks). If you’re traveling internationally, make sure you understand the country’s legal process. Also, make sure you understand whether you need an officiant and/or witnesses.
Elopements can be an intimate affair, often with only the couple present, but if you’d like to invite a few people, it’s up to you. Common attendees may include:
Let your guests know well in advance, and make it clear that you’re opting for a small ceremony to avoid hurt feelings. You may also want to consider the logistics of travel if you’re inviting others.
Depending on your elopement vision, you may want to hire certain vendors to make your day even more special:
Some elopements require an officiant (or celebrant), while others allow the couple to self-solemnize.
Capturing the moment is essential, so a photographer is a must (I swear I’m not biased).
If you want to feel extra glamorous, a professional stylist can help you look and feel your best.
A bouquet or boutonniere can add beauty to the occasion.
Record the day with a video for memories to look back on.
Since an elopement is personal, your ceremony can be tailored to your style. Consider the following:
Will you write your own vows, or will the officiant guide you through traditional vows?
Do you want to include any unique elements such as readings, candle lighting, or exchanging gifts?
If you’re eloping in nature, consider whether you’ll need seating, decorations, or a specific setup. Keep it simple, or make it as unique and meaningful as you want.
If your elopement is a destination event, logistics are important. Consider:
Flights, road trips, car rentals.
Where you’ll stay before and after the ceremony.
Will you dine out at a restaurant, have a private chef, or picnic on the beach? Think about where you’ll celebrate afterward.
Ensure you have everything booked well in advance, especially if you’re traveling to a remote or popular location.
Hiring a photographer or videographer who specializes in elopements can make all the difference in how you relive the day. Choose someone who aligns with your style and who will make you feel comfortable (whether that’s me or not). But if we are a good fit, I have a package tailored specifically for intimate, destination elopements.
Here’s everything that is included in my Adventure Elopement package:
When you book my Adventure Elopement package, one huge perk is unlimited location and timeline consulting. Do you have a vague vision of sandy beaches or ocean cliffs, but don’t know where to elope? I will help you wherever you are in your planning journey, from finding the most beautiful destination, to crafting a careful day-of timeline that fits your needs and preferences.
I will curate a custom itinerary, providing you with personalized recommendations to suit your personal likes and interests for your perfect wedding trip. You have a complimetary travel designer in your corner, cutting hours off your planning time. We can work collaboratively, brainstorming and dreaming up together your perfect elopement weekend, or I can offer up ideas only when asked. This is truly a tailor-made experience, made with you in mind.
My Adventure Elopement package includes 8-10 hours of photography coverage! I will be your third wheel for the day, but will often take a back-seat approach to leave plenty of room for those intimate moments that should be shared between just the two of you. I document the entire day, from getting ready, your first look, exchanging vows, and saying “I Do”.
You will receive from your full elopement day, a minimum of 500 high-resolution digital photographs delivered in an online gallery.
My Adventure Elopement package INCLUDES airfare and any travel costs. No hidden fees or taxes. Period.
If this all sounds like exactly what you’re looking for, let’s talk. The investment for my destination elopement package is only $5,000, and I have custom payment plans available. Remember, that your wedding day-whether local or destination- is an investment. You are investing in and choosing the person you will forever do life with. That is a beatiful testiment that should be honored and celebrated in a big way, and deserves to be documented. If you plan to celebrate by eloping in a dramatic landscape anywhere across the globe, I’m your gal.
Sunrise at a mountaintop with just the two of you and a photographer.
Beachside vows at a hidden cove with a quiet, intimate reception afterward.
City elopement in Paris or Venice, capturing the beauty of iconic architecture.
Adventure elopement in the desert, with a hiking trek to your ceremony spot.
On the big day, take a deep breath, and remember that this day is about the two of you. Whether it’s just you two alone or with a small group of loved ones, enjoy the intimate experience. Let go of any expectations and focus on what makes you happy. After all, the most important part is the love you’re celebrating.
Eloping is the perfect opportunity to create an unforgettable, personal experience with your partner. From choosing the perfect location to planning your ceremony, every decision you make can reflect your unique love story. Elopements are intimate and special, and there’s no “right” or “wrong” way to do it—just what feels best for you both.
Congratulations on this exciting journey, and may your elopement be everything you dreamed of and more! If you’re ready to work with me on creating and documenting your one-of-a-kind destination elopement, let’s talk.
tegan & aaron
"We were both so excited and nervous about getting our pictures taken. Brittany was amazing at helping us relax and kept us laughing the whole time, and that is where the magic was made. Brittany really took the time to get to know our style and be sure she was getting all the shots that we wanted!"
